Some say that all children are gifted. Is that true?
What does it mean to be gifted?
If not all children are gifted, how do you know if a child is gifted? What are the signs?
Can children with disabilities be gifted as well?
Is giftedness something acquired through study techniques or learned through mental programming?
Or is giftedness something that a child is born with?
What if a child is gifted? What does a parent need to do?
What’s the difference between typical children and gifted children?
Do gifted kids have special needs?
Do you have all these questions in your head as a parent? Are you wondering if your child is gifted?
I never gave this word much thought until I read this in a book when I was a first-time mom. It was a book that tells of a baby’s milestones during his first year of life on top of what moms need to do during a baby’s first year. I would review this book regularly to check if my son was hitting his milestones as predicted or expected. I would put check marks on the milestones that my son has achieved and sometimes, I would put the dates or my son’s age when he achieved those milestones. This practice led me to keep on going back to a page in the book that listed the characteristics of gifted children.
I noticed that many of the characteristics of gifted children listed on that page were increasingly manifested in my baby as he grew older. Could it be that my child is gifted? I asked myself repeatedly as I reviewed his milestones and the characteristics listed on the page.
As I kept on doing this milestone review and documentation through this book, I became increasingly convinced that the probability that my son is gifted is high.
Soon, my son’s behaviors and actions moved me and my husband to consult a developmental pediatrician. We were advised by our son’s pediatrician to do this after I reported to her my son’s milestones over a period of time.
My son was a little over 2 years old then. We were able to secure an appointment with the developmental pediatrician months later. My son was around 2.5 years old when he was first assessed. The developmental pediatrician said that he’s potentially-gifted. He said that’s the term they use for very young children who show signs of giftedness.
Every year, around my eldest son’s birthday, we would go back to this same developmental pediatrician and have my son assessed. Every year, he would tell us almost the same thing.
But we did something different when he was already over 5 years old. We brought him to a school that administers comprehensive testing on giftedness to kids as young as 5 years old. The results confirmed the previous assessments. Our firstborn is gifted.
If I did not encounter the
clinical definitions of the word GIFTED, I would probably go on thinking that those statements are fine and acceptable. BUT I have discovered what the word gifted means; so, I feel compelled to share what I have learned so far.
I had mixed emotions when I first learned that my child is gifted.
At first, I was happy and proud that he has been achieving his milestones quite fast. Then, those feelings turned into fear because I didn’t know how to handle his fast development. I also didn’t understand what giftedness really meant and how it would impact his life and our family life.
As my eldest child grew older, I became grateful that I discovered what the word gifted means.
The word gifted gave me a sense of relief somehow. It was a relief to me to know that the reason for my eldest son’s behaviors was not because he’s being disobedient or that I’m failing miserably as a parent. It was simply because he is gifted.
I have learned from the literature that I have read and from my own experiences with my son after reading A LOT of material on the subject that gifted kids behave differently from most children. That’s because their brains were wired differently.
A few years ago, we also brought our second child to the same developmental pediatrician who assessed our firstborn. His assessment showed that our second child is also potentially gifted just like his older brother. He was around 4 years old then and thus the term potentially gifted.
When you become a parent, your world expands. When I learned that my eldest child is gifted, I devoured every literature I could find on the topic. I attended whatever seminars, workshops or conventions that fit my already busy schedule. I was eager to learn and I was motivated to learn for the sake of my child and for my sake. When I discovered that my second child is also gifted, the more I became determined to learn more about this field. This is because I am a parent of gifted children and I need to learn how to support my children’s special needs and to help them reach their full potential.
Because of this also, I have chosen to help raise awareness on giftedness and to help my fellow parents understand their gifted kids.
On February 25, 2017, I will give a talk titled Giftedness 101. This will be at Playworks, SM Aura Campus from 2 -4 PM.
The topics that I will cover are the following:
- Are all children gifted? What does it mean to be gifted?
- What are the signs of giftedness or twice exceptionality, especially in young children?
- What are the advantages of finding out if your child is gifted or not?
- What are the advantages of hands-on parenting to the gifted or twice exceptional child?
- What should you do when you see signs of giftedness in your child?
- What are the advantages of homeschooling gifted or twice exceptional kids?
- How do you homeschool a gifted child?
Aside from learning more about giftedness and twice exceptionality, parents will also have the opportunity to meet other parents of gifted and twice exceptional children and thus find a support group who will understand the same challenges and joys that they experience.
The registration fee is Php 750. The Early Bird Rate of Php 650 is available until February 14, 2017 only. The parents of students from Playworks get a discounted rate of P500. The registration fee already covers the handouts and light snacks. The snacks will be provided by Mommy Bakes PH.
I’m very excited for this! We’re also giving away to the first 20 parents who will register and pay for the GIFTEDNESS 101 talk Gift Certificates worth Php 3,000 each courtesy of KIDS ACTS PHILIPPINES (KAPI). This performing school has been the training ground of the Aliw best Child Performer and The Voice Kids Philippines semi-finalist, Noel Comia Jr.

We will also raffle some prizes from Filway MarketingInc. who is one of our sponsors. Filway provides good quality learning materials for children. I especially like their product called A Child’s First Library of Learning.

This is just one of several items we would raffle off from Mom and Milly Educational Toys.
Click here to register for this talk. We have very limited slots so I suggest that parents secure their tickets fast. Buy your ticket here.
I am blessed to get the support of the following sponsors and media partners: Playworks Early Childhood Center, Kids Acts Philippines, Inc. and Filway Marketing Inc., Mom and Milly Educational Toys, When in Manila.com, Experience of a Super Mommy and The Filipino Homeschooler.
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